Stepmothers are Moms Too: Blended Families

Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother.
— Oprah Winfrey
Marilyn and Me
Marilyn and Me

Our Beginning

When my dad found Marilyn, he found a gem stone. She and I were introduced in the mid-'80s and we clicked immediately. She made a great impression on me and it was obvious that she wanted me to be accepting of her.  As time went on, our friendly talks morphed into a relationship with a loving bond that still exists. She and my dad were married in May 1993 and I couldn't be more proud to call her family.

These days, we don't see each other as much as we'd like which she repeatedly reminded me of the other day; however, when we do, it's as though we just talked the day before.

What's In A Stepmother?

There are special qualities within my stepmother that are important to me and that I cherish. She is gentle and kind; a woman of God; very soft-spoken, and above all she loves me unconditionally.

I spoke about my views on blended families in a previous post but today is a tribute to our special mother/daughter relationship. Our bond is an example of mutual acceptance and is an important step in being a successful family blend. I can't end this post without saying, "Marilyn, I love you, and thank you for being such a blessing in my life then and now". 

Love endures forever.

Fran

Frances Stanfield

One Georgia peach boasting an ordinary day in a not so ordinary life. Sharing personal experiences with alopecia, aging, family & all things frugal.

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